Today i want to say about one of the major trouble faced by the children. The trouble
faced is the communication gap between the parents and children.When someone ask
the parents about their children,"Are your children happy?".Most of
the parents reply that our children are happy because we are giving children the costly dresses,gifts and toys etc.But the children are not actually
happy,as they require their parents valuable time and love along with the dresses,gifts etc.
If the parents don't do
this below mentioned some of the problems faced by the children.
1.
Lack of self confidence.
2. For
every task they are going to perform they lack some steps behind to the finish line.
3. If
the parents encourage their children to achieve the goal/complete the task in
this way .They always say to their
children that you should do this/win this .But the parents will not give the
way and their past experiences related to that inorder to achieve the
goal/complete the task.Due to this there will be stress in the children.
4. The
children feel that friends are more important to them than the parents because of the love
and affection of the friends towards
them.
If the parents spend
their valuable time and love with their children .The below mentioned are some
of the outcomes.
1. The children
will feel confident and they possess self respect.
2. Mutual
understanding ,cooperation and coordination between the parents and the
children will be grown.
3. If
they provide the love and affection which is given by their friends ,the
children feel more happy since they are receiving their parents love in a friendly
way .As a a result of this the parents will be knowing about their children.
And
finally the ultimate outcome from their children is they become as a
"GEM".
To all the parents/children ,if your children/parents don't
talk to you don't misunderstand them .Try to talk with them .If both the parents
and the children understand themselves in a
positive way the
happiness experienced by both of them can't be expressed in words.
The
reason why i wrote this is i have observed this problem in my friends and my
parents love ,affection and encouragement to me in each and every aspect .Thank
you God.